And The Winner Is....

First off I would like to tell the supporters of First Class Blogs Happy New Year. We will continue to bring our thoughts and opinions to ya'll but even stronger and more consistently.

Now that I've exchanged my pleasentries I will proceed to roll up this shit I been smoking called No Chill in an extendo blunt of Truth

As with many of the blogs I write influenced by the bullshit I see on my TL this blog is no different. You know what phrase Im tiring of seeing?

"These hoes is winning"

When I see this tweet it reeks of BWB Syndrome (Black Woman Bitterness) and a labia that has been devoid of a tongue caressing  in over 5 months.

It irritates me on so many levels.

Women are always saying how men subject them to double standards when in fact women pass judgement on other women more than men do.

It also gives off the "I'm better than" impression when we all know that ALL women go through or have gone through a "Hoe stage". Don't play dumb.
We know boutcha!!!

But I'll tell you why these hoes is winning and you're not...

Hoes don't give a fuck about what people think and your stuck up ass is too concerned about perception vs reality.

The reality is you've developed carpel tunnel syndrome giving your self the Spiderman special every night and have developed a dangerous Netflix & Butter Pecan habit.

The perception is you're a queen who's not settling for anybody blah blah blah blah blah.

Get.The.Fuck.Outta.Here.
You settled in high school and settled in college. What the fuck makes you think life is any different. And since when is a settlement bad? It means coming to an agreement.

Now ladies if you're happy being single then do it up but don't hate on other women cuz they got a man by saying hoes winning. You know why they're winning?

Happiness Over Everything.

Its simple. These women have decided that they are willing to do what it takes to be happy regardless of the what others may percieve. The facts are she has a tweet gap from 10 pm to 8 am every day while you endlessly tweet into Underground Railroad hours.

Now Im not suggesting you fuck all those potential "Hims" whose DMs you "pretend" to ignore. Im not telling you to cheapen yourself or lower your self worth.

But I am saying...What do you have to lose?

That guy that you like who makes you smile that doesn't have a car/house/degree give him a chance. Why not build somthing together with him?

Fuck what your single bitter girlfriends think. They're not gonna fuck you raw on that third day of your period and fuck up their favorite already discolored towel.  He will.

If a dude is telling you he doesn't want a girlfriend don't hold out to fuck if you're genuinely interested. If you're "only wifey material" guess what...You would've been a wifey already. Suprisingly you're not.Take what you can get and keep it moving.

How about you show some thirst. Ask for his number. Stop constantly thinking about if you're playing yourself or not. Have a fling act like an adult for once.

Now ladies you know yourselves best and what you can or can't deal with.

I'll just let you know that Instagram likes, your car, your house, and that 5 yr degree is NOT gonna hug you back, pulverize that vulva, or stand in line with tampons and diced pineapples.

Written by Grit$ (@DeeperThanGrits)